Choosing ourselves

Life Coaching tools: When we indulge in a false sense of reality and allow the noises around us to invade our personal space, the process gains energy and we have a long menu of unattainable expectations and sham truths…

Mind Fuck | Mind Game

Posted by on Dec 8, 2010 in Mind Games | 0 comments

We will choose to have partners\relationships in our lives under the same pretext as we had previously. We may not be available emotionally and consistently lie to impress and to ensure degrees of loyalty from our partners\relationships. As long as the system worked previously, we covertly refrain from moving forward in our relationships. We may keep at a distance from our real feelings and may not bring ourselves to admit to our imperfections and strengths . . . particularly the ones that involved in having to make changes. Over and over, we discuss the same things and do not step outside...

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Life Coaching

Posted by on Dec 3, 2010 in Boundaries as givers and takers, Choosing ourselves, Life Coaching Tools, Timeout and Reconciliation | 1 comment

Life coaching is a practice with the aim of helping clients determine and achieve personal goals. My methodology of life coaching is based around cognitive (emotional) therapy; which is best suited to assist with generalized anxiety disorders to help clients understand: Provide bird’s eye view  of the way emotions ebb(flow) due to choices, thereby facilitating a better understanding of the creation and management of emotions and choices(diagram based). Provide additional personal management tools(diagram based) . Set and reach goals in life categories(diagram based). Provide an...

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Noise versus Reality

Posted by on Nov 9, 2010 in Choosing ourselves, Life Coaching Tools | 0 comments

When we indulge in a false sense of reality and allow the noises around us to invade our personal space, the process gains energy and soon we have a long menu of unattainable expectations and sham truths that manifest themselves in ways that serve only to confuse us even more than before. Our forged reality causes us to make unwise and unjustifiable choices and to take unsustainable actions. Our unreliable behavior confuses those around us. How many times have we been in a dialogue where we become nervous and clam up, because the subject either requires that we take ownership of the...

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